Do you find yourself blaming someone or everyone else for not having the life you want? Are you often stopped in your tracks by the internal voice that asks, ''what will people think?'' Do you find that you are embarrassed by what you want and thus prevented from pursuing it?
If you are tired of playing the “blame game” and not having what you deserve or letting shame run your life, let me help start living in a shame, blame free way.
Shame and blame are common in our the lives of gay and straight men, as well as all sexual orientations on the spectrum in between. Try life coaching as a way to move forward and end the blame game cycle in your life, working with a gay coach who empathizes with your journey.
“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.”
— Wayne Dyer